You know the drill: what’s your age, sex, and location? If you’re just typing on a chat site, then it’s all too easy to tell a little white lie or a huge one. How do you know that the hot babe you’ve been chatting up isn’t a creepy old man who gets off on talking to young guys like you? It’s not always easy, but you can do it if you pay attention to a few crucial things. Keep your wits about you, and don’t let yourself get outsmarted by some old guy or, even worse, a group of underage girls looking to have some fun.
Keep It Legal
“Do not chat with a girl who is still under 18 years of age”
First of all, keep this in mind: if you ask them for their ASL and they respond with anything under 18, back right the heck on out of that conversation. Even if they are lying, you don’t want ANY part of that. The last thing you need is to get picked up by the police when you’re just trying to get off. Most sites will allow you to simply leave a conversation whenever you want, so just do that and don’t even respond to them.
Beware of the “Just Turned 18” Chicks
Okay, now that that’s out of the way, let’s get on to the essentials. Steer clear of girls who claim that they’re “barely legal” or “just 18”. Since this is a common age, and considered a very sexy age for most guys, it’s an automatic go-to for people looking to scam you. If you get a girl telling you that she’s eighteen, feel her out for a bit to get a sense of how legit she is. If you’re younger yourself, then you’re aware of the slang these days. An old guy won’t be too savvy to this sort of lingo, so if she’s telling you that things are “radical”, then it’s probably a no-go for you.
Watch for the Location and Overly Horny Girls
“This mature woman is trying to be over horny”
Also pay attention to the location they list. Most girls will just put the country they’re in – someone trying to scam you will be a bit more specific. Girls from L.A. or New Jersey in a huge tip-off seeing as these are the places in the U.S. where girls are the wildest. Be on the lookout for girls who can’t stop talking about how horny they are or how bad they want a man like you – yeah, it’s tempting, but come on now. How many girls do you know of that will come right out and act that way online without any foreplay at all? Last but not least, NEVER EVER agree to send pictures until you get pictures of her first. You really don’t want some creepy dude having nudes of you, right? Right.
Chat sites are super fun for any sort of flirting or cheating, but it is easy to lie on there. Just keep in mind that if you could lie about who you are, so could they. Spending all night talking dirty to an old man or an underage girl isn’t how you want to spend your free time, so make sure you’re playing it safe and bringing in the real chicks.