Is Porn Cheating?

“I am not having sex with anyone but am just watching porn”

Many couples fight over pornography and most of the time it has to do with the dude watching too much of it and the chick getting jealous. Some even go so far as to say that watching porn is cheating. Arguing senselessly over this will not actually solve anything. When talking to your chick, try these tactics to let her know what’s up with porn and cheating.

What Does She Consider Cheating?

Ask her what her definition of cheating is. Often her issue is that you a) watch something that has hot women in it really getting it on and b) watch nasty things that she would never be willing to do. In the case of a, ladies will often say something along the lines of “I know there are other pretty women in the world, and that you look at them…” but what they are really wanting is to hear that you would never look at those skanks, whether on a video or in real life. So when she sees that you do, it upsets her and makes her feel insecure. B, on the other hand, might freak her out a little bit. Even things like anal porn will make her feel upset because she just simply doesn’t want to do it, which somehow drives you to watch other people do it. That means that she is not fulfilling your wants and needs, thus making you not want her. This, of course, is non-sense. She is sexy and real, but sometimes she needs reminding of that.

Types of Cheating

Actual cheating has varied definitions, but the most common themes are that there is emotional cheating and physical cheating. Emotional cheating is when a tight bond is formed with another person who, even if they don’t put out, still gives you something that your partner can’t. These types of things are often very intimate and shut out your partner in favor of being with the other person. Physical cheating, well that says it all, doesn’t it? When poking around where you shouldn’t be (in any orifice of any gender) it is physically cheating on your partner. Of course this is damaging. It betrays trust, emotionally hurts them, and ruins many other things. Lay these two types of cheating down in your convo with your lady. Ask her which one porn falls into. You haven’t developed an intimate, emotional standing with it, but you don’t put your junk in it. The only time that porn would really be a killer in the way you feel about her is if it becomes a legit addiction.

Explain That She’s Still Better Than Porn

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“Touching you is far better than watching porn”

Part of this might be that she doesn’t understand why you watch it. Explain that sometimes she turns you on so much even when she’s sick or tired or crabby that you have to get off somehow. Given the chance, you’d be giving her the business for as long as you can and then some, but that’s not always the case. Hell, maybe YOU’RE tired or cranky or sick and just want to get your rocks off real quick. It’s so much faster just to do it yourself sometimes. One of the easiest ways to get her to understand that she is better than any porn is to explain how real she is and how she can fulfill you in a way a video can’t. And that is why you watch porn.

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