Flings on the side can either be fun or dangerous, and although we don’t like to be negative, the fact of the matter is that you ARE taking a risk by banging a girl that isn’t your wife or partner. If you’ve been savvy about finding a hottie on the DL, then you’ll make sure from the get-go that she’s not looking for anything beyond hooking up, and she knows what you’re all about. However, not all girls are as honest as us, so beware. Here are a few signs that your lady is getting backstabbing, how to prevent it, and deal with the aftermath if necessary.
Signs She’s Crazy
If she seems super clingy, this is a bad signal. When we say “clingy,” we mean all over you to the point where other girls start to cast their eyes away, as if your fling will claw their eyes out. If you get the sense she actually WILL, you might want to back away in the early days of your courtship. Ditch her if she’s nuts. Be careful with girls like this, because you may have an idea of what to expect and like her, but the minute your gut tells you otherwise, obey and bow out. Be careful about early warning signs and pay attention to how she approaches everyday problem solving.
She’s Crazy, But You Didn’t Realize
Let’s say you don’t recognize the signs that your fling is nuts and you get stuck with her, only to realize that she’s planning on blackmailing you to get what she wants, either because she’s into an LTR you don’t plan to give or she’s just pissed that you’re cheating on your wife. The thing about psycho girls is that they don’t make sense or have goals you can understand; they just want to wreak havoc. The way to avoid this type of fallout is to never tell a fling your address, don’t give your number, and avoid even dolling out your last name. If it’s someone you know, that’s different, but we’ll assume that if you know someone well enough to call them a friend, you’d already know they aren’t psycho. So to avoid the random hookup who’s nuts, just cover your bases by not revealing too much.
This is the point at which the blackmail becomes legit, and your crazy fling blows up your spot. Whether it’s sending photos of your dick to your wife or showing up at your door, this is where the crazy explodes and interrupts your life. If you’ve taken the previous precautions, then all of this is unlikely to actually happen. However, if some girl really does show up and legitimately try to mess up your life, the best form of blackmail besides reason is material to do the same thing right back. Make sure you keep in your clutches some sort of leverage, like naked pictures or risqu