One thing a lot of guys on cheater dating sites forget to account for is the fact that the girls they meet on married dating sites are PROBABLY going to be married themselves.
Yes, some girls just have a preference for married guys without being married themselves. However, on a cheater dating site, most girls who are “single” are actually escorts and hookers.
You actually WANT a married woman!
Think about it: a married woman has as much to lose as you do. This will make sure that you will have the same priorities at stake-finding romance and passion without sacrificing the lives you’ve worked so hard to build. If you hook up with a single chick, there’s always going to be the worry that she’ll suddenly decide she wants more from you than you’re willing to give, and you’ll be forced to deal with it.
Plus, married women have been around the block a few times. They know what they want in bed, and they know that they want YOU to give them exactly what they’re craving.
Here’s how to keep it sexy.
First of all, you can try things with other cheaters that you would never want to try with your wife. You don’t have to be worried she’ll think you’re weird or unsexy-you can always just dump her and find another cheating babe to hook up with in secret.
You can explore your fantasies, explore HER fantasies and find out stuff you never knew was sexy, and have all kinds of freaky fun that you have been missing from your marriage.
First things first: keep it safe.
Before you head over to your date, make sure you’re going EQUIPPED. Yes, we mean you should bring condoms. You should wear a condom even if you’ve had a vasectomy, even if you don’t give a crap about pregnancy, even if she swears she’s had her tubes tied, even if both of you swear you’re clean. Rule of thumb is that if you wouldn’t trust her with your bank account information, don’t trust her when she says she’s clean.
Long story short, wear a condom. Make sure that you bring condoms. Bring extras. Don’t assume you’ll have enough, make sure you have twice as much as you’re going to need.
If she’s into using extras like spermicide, diaphragms, whatever, let her deal with that-you just don’t want to be the guy who shows up to the party without some way to glove your love.
As far as “extras,” there are a lot of fun things you can try with a mistress, hot date, or “other woman” that you might not want to try with your wife. For example, ask if she wants to try sex toys.
There are a bunch of different kinds of toys, lubes, whatever, and you can feel free to experiment with them as much as you and your lady want. Don’t shy away from anything she suggests right away, either. You can always tell her afterwards if you didn’t like something, but shooting down her ideas will make her less accepting towards the ones you want to try out.
The most important thing is that you get permission first.
This woman is a fresh start for you, a chance for you to have some fun and get freaky with a woman who doesn’t need to do your laundry in the morning. You have all the time you want to get it RIGHT, so make sure that’s exactly what you do.
Before trying anything kinky for the first time, talk a little about what you’d like to do. Make sure you’re both staying safe, but a little talk about negotiated kinks can be fun. Married dating is great for this, because you both know this isn’t going to go anywhere. There’s no chance that this can come back to bite you in the ass later, because there’s no chance you’re going to BE with this person later!
As soon as you’ve negotiated what you want to try and both shared your opinions, feel free to try some stuff out. If it works, great, but be prepared to laugh about anything that goes wrong. It doesn’t have to be awkward if you get stuck in Japanese rope bondage for 20 minutes, as long as you’re laughing and she eventually gets the scissors.
Basically, this is just a great way for you to try out some fantasies-hopefully, while you’re fulfilling some of hers, as well. Remember, her pleasure can be just as important as yours. A very sexually satisfied woman is a pleasure to have in bed, and can be VERY good at paying you back for any inconveniences as soon as you both get your breath back.
And if all goes well, you’ll both have something new and fun to show your spouses. Just pretend you read it in an article online.