What’s She Into: Find Her Kinks

For whatever reason, a lot of dudes like to believe chicks are pure and fair maidens who have never thought about sex, or at least not sex other than in the missionary position. That might be because they want to introduce chicks to other aspects of sex, but it sounds kind of boring. It’s a lot more interesting and fun when a woman knows what she’s into and how she wants to have sex. Some women are upfront about their wants, telling you exactly how they want sex to go, but others are shy about it, whether because they’ve never tried the things they want, because they’ve never shared what their kinks are with anyone other than their girlfriends, or because she’s worried she’ll be made fun of. You’re an open-minded dude, though, right? And you know most chicks have their own kinks, so you want to know what your lady’s kinks are. The Subtle Approach “She seems to be into spanking” Don’t go all Christian Grey on her by taking her to a hardware store and buying a bunch of BDSM supplies. That’s creepy, and it could embarrass her if she picks up on what you’re doing. Instead, try talking about how, this one time, your ex-girlfriend was into…

The Etiquette of Spending the Night with Your Girl on the Side

Spending the night can be a big deal, especially to chicks. You might just think of it as convenient, or maybe it’s just hard because your wife is monitoring you ever move. Thing is, banging a chick and then sleeping over is not just another night. We have to admit, sharing a bed with someone else can be an intense thing, or it can just be a marriage of convenience. Either way, we have a few pointers about how to do this, and not ruin your marriage. Is it practical, or is it emotional? Don’t spend the night with your girl on the side if it’s emotional. There’s a distinct difference here, and it’s not hard to tell. If the girl you’re banging look really longing or emotional, she’s going to read into you staying the night A LOT. Don’t do it, and in the process, you won’t send her the wrong message. It’s not like we want to hurt a chick’s feelings, but more importantly, avoid the drama! On the other hand, if a babe is so tired out from hooking up that she just immediately falls asleep and extends an offer for you to stay, it’s cool. The major thing to watch for here is that she’s more…

Tactics For Dealing with a Confrontation if Your Wife Finds Out

Your wife finds out that you’ve been banging some dime piece on the side. You can’t deny it – she legit knows. She’s got the evidence: text messages, e-mails, naughty photos, maybe even a private detective. She’s pissed as hell as probably hurt – although that depends on your situation – and is about to wail on your ass. She can sue you, divorce you, and ruin your life in a variety of other ways. The point here is that honesty is the golden rule, and even if that plisses you off and makes you feel frustrated, it’s worth it in the long run. However, what to do when your wife finds out? Don’t get us wrong! We don’t want to ruin your fun, but it can’t hurt to keep an eye out for further fans. Maintain Eye Contact and Sincerely Apologize Apologize to her and DO NOT look away. The minute you break eye contact once you’re looking at each other is the moment she eviscerates you, whether through screaming or tears. Just keep eye contact and say you’re sorry. Don’t open your mouth or argue, unless you’re not ACTUALLY cheating on her, but we assume you wouldn’t be reading this if you were actually innocent. Your girl is…

Mood Music: Should You Play Music During Your Cam Hookups?

“I like the background music being played by you” It’s no secret that playing music in the background is one of the easiest ways to enhance your sex life. No doubt you’ve rolled around under the covers with a fair few women over the years to the tune of some mood music. For nice, slow and sexual sex you can turn on the iconic R&B or soul, or for dirty, rough, fast-paced hookups there’s always the bass-heavy techno or trance, or some heavy rock guitar riffs or the beats or some rap. Now that you’ve started up an affair online, you might be wondering if you should turn on some music in the background for those times you have video chats to get off with each other. You’re probably wondering what sorts of music are good, or if it’s even worth it. Well, the answer is yes; as long as it’s the right kind of music and will enhance the mood rather than distract from it, you can definitely turn some on even for those cam-only hookups! Coordinate With Her Ahead of Time “Ask her what type of music she likes” You can’t go wrong with music to heighten the mood no matter how you’re planning to get off. For…

How to Bring Up Kinks With Online Relationships

“Compliment her and then tell her what you would like her to do” We all keep secrets from our partners, from the little, tiny omissions to the large, life-altering ones. When one of those secrets is about something as private and intimate as a personal kink, though, keeping the secret can begin to cause a serious strain on your relationship and sex life. You might feel unsatisfied and unfulfilled, she might feel like you’re keeping something more heinous from her, and before long, bad blood can begin to boil. When you’re in an online relationship, distance can feel even greater. Of course, it’s understandable to be nervous about bringing kinks up, especially if you don’t know how your partner might react. What if she ridicules you? What if she’s disgusted? Any rejection is hard, but rejection of something so personal can smart even more. Luckily, if you follow the steps below, you can be sure to lessen any possible blow-back and increase your chances for the best possible outcome. How to Have That Discussion First things first, this is not a conversation to jump right into. Don’t wait until you’re in the middle of cybering to bring this up. Instead, choose an appropriate time for a talk, when neither of…

Good Times of Year to Begin an Affair Online

Believe it or not, there are times of the year where it’s better to try and start up an affair. If you have the opportunity for great sex outside your committed relationship, though, don’t pass it up just because you’re waiting for the right time. Who does that? That will never get you anywhere, man. Whether you’re a veteran cheater or this is your first time getting back in the dating saddle since you married your wife, aiming for the spring or winter can get you everywhere. If you’re looking to dive into the world of having an affair, especially if you’re looking around on cheater websites to try and find your other woman, try and aim for the these times and you’ll be over the moon with how well it goes for you. Green Light During Spring “Spring is the best season to start an affair” Spring cleaning happens with relationships, not just houses! Many people who stayed in a sub-par relationship over the winter will rid themselves of it come spring, which is where your good luck comes in. It’s a sense of rebirth thing for a lot of women, and they’ll flood to online cheater sites seeking a committed guy who won’t want one hundred percent of…


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